Girls Just Wanna – XXXMas Party!



BYO ONLY – Bottleshop across the road.
Bring your own toys!
*this is a sex on premises venue!*

Girls Just Wanna!


Welcome to our final Girls Just Wanna for the year, and we’re going to send it off in festive style!

There will be a raffle and fun surprises! Keep track of it on our event page, facebook or Sign up to our specific Girls Just Wanna mailing list by emailing to receive all the news on this event! Or to mailing list for news on this and other Sanctuary events. <3

Multi ticket sales EXTENDED! MERRY XXXMAS!

A women / trans / female identifying / non binary Play party at Sanctuary, hosted by Lillith. Cut loose and have some fun in a safe space! With musicians and DJ’s, multiple play areas and experienced and friendly staff!

We have an inclusive and embracing view of gender identity and sexuality, if you have any questions please get in touch with

We reserve the right to refuse entry to any individuals at the door in order to keep the party fun, safe and consensual.

Unsafe, non consensual, abusive and straight out (non consensual) creepy behaviour will NOT be tolerated. Please find one of the Sanctuary staff if anything or anyone is making you or your friends uncomfortable.



Estée Louder
Estée Louder has been entertaining audiences for around 4 years.
Starting her career in Melbourne, she is now Sydney based and has played parties across Australia as well as Tokyo, London and New York City.
Louder’s personal musical taste veer towards the darker, sharper end of the spectrum. It was with this aesthetic in mind that she created CONTROL – a seasonal club night and podcast series. Starting off in Melbourne, the night now runs in Sydney 4 times a year continuing to focus on techno, electronic and experimental artists from local lands and abroad – with a GLBTIQ artist preference.
She has held a residency at the Sydney Hellfire Club for the last 2 years where she has had the opportunity to develop her signature dancefloor mood.


Facebook: Estée Louder

We’re stoked to announce that SCΔR will be returning to perform on the Girls Just Wanna night!
SCΔR has been playing her breed of dark, sleazy, intense, feminist and furious brand of dark techno and electro for over a decade – infusing live synths and drum machines amongst underground banger-tracks.
Known for her high energy and provocative performance outfits, she can’t wait to contribute to the hymns of Sanctuary.


Three levels of play equipment…
Three levels of possibilities…
Ground floor – multiple suspension points, fixed St Andrew’s cross and A Frame, and a range of spanking furniture.
Basement – a grungy suburban dungeon vibe… Bamboo suspension points, multiple single suspension points, a St Andrew’s cross, massage table, two cages.
Top Floor – Medical room, sturdy metal cube frame, sex sling and semi curtained bedding area.

Sanctuary offers a safe and fun place to explore your fetish and kink, play and socialise.

Our experienced Dungeon Monitors and staff are always on hand for any questions or help that you may need!

Allow yourself to let go and explore…

See you there!

18+ event – no ID no entry.

Tickets $27/30 online, $40 at the door.